One should not feel guilty when they have committed no transgressions. Guilt is relieved by forgiveness and atonement. You have nothing to atone for. You have not harmed the cat. You have not harmed the SPCA. You did your best and the situation did not work out. Be that as it may, make a donation to the SPCA and send them a letter thanking them for their understanding. Then move on.Any advice on how to get over extreme guilt?
The very best thing for you to do is to pray and ask God for forgiveness. He knows that you really did want to help the new cat; while at the same time...you didn't want to create a difficult situation for your existing cat. If you had not already had a cat at home, it might have worked out. You could also call the SPCA and see if the other cat is still there; if it is...you could go check on him and make sure he's alright.
Hey at least you have a conscience. You sound like you have a good heart, which is more than can be said for a lot of people. I think you did the right thing for both of you.
All pets like people are not compatible to everyone. That behavior was what placed him/her outside the home in the first place. Too bad you dis try meds but this cat needs special 24/7 attention I think.
Some animals need someone home with them.
Tell yourself the truth, over and over. The truth being, you tried, you did your best, and that cat will be happier living somewhere else in a one cat household. You, your cat and that cat will all do better because of the wise choice you made. Congratulate yourself, you did something hard, but it was the right thing to do! : )
Remind yourself that this cat was just not fit for YOU! He tore up your furniture (which is not cheap) and he Pee'd your house up with Liquid Sulfur...It's not worth trying to be a good Samaritan if you can't see because your eyes are burning. Chock it up as a mistake and love the cat you have correctly.
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