Could someone please give me some advice on how to reconcile with the problem below?

My ex-spouse recently got married at the same church that we got married 15 years ago and where our two children were baptized. I was deeply hurt!! Could someone please give me some advice on how to reconcile with the problem below?
i guess he has the choice to get married anywhere he wants to, and he may have did it because he knew it would bother you, lifes to short to worry about things lik thatCould someone please give me some advice on how to reconcile with the problem below?
ok dont think about that








the only resion he did that is to remember you


and the kids
Hmm...that's a tough one, for sure. I guess you could look at it from the point of view that at least he's still wanting to have a connection with the faith that you both would like your kids raised in? Don't know...must be a painful situation for you. Take care. %26lt;3
Move on. It's not worth dwelling over.
I wish my ex would remarry. He's a pain in my neck.
Do you still attend the church?


Do the kids still attend the church?





Does he even still attend the church?





Was it the same pastor?





Needs more info to give a credible opionon.





However, embrass it, and be hopefull that he has found happiness.





It is only a place to be shared by many things, by many people.





Find happiness in this strange situation.
That was probably the point ,don,t let him know how it effected you.Do you only have one church in town ?
its a free country. be hapy for them! you dont have to go to the wedding
You must still have feelings for him and you're not really over him. Let me tell you something, get over him. Go out with friends, keep yourself busy with work, the kids, or anything to help you stop thinking about it. Once you start your new life, you will then be able to look at this as another page in your life book and move on.





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It is natural to feel deeply hurt.





It's like you never existed.





The most important identity you can have is to belong to a community of worship, to be married there in front of God and the community, to bring your children into the community through baptism.





Why do you think your ex did this? To tell the community and the children it was her church? To make you history?





If I were you I would take the kids and go to the next service and be of service to the church. Service will be remembered long after the pretend ceremony fades.





You can only get married for the first time once.





My ex-friend stole a husband at his family's church, breaking up the family and then continued to go to the same church with her new blended family. I told her I didn't want my daughter to hang out with women who betray other women. They got divorced two years later when the man realized how much he lost.
Maybe that is the reason for getting married there. Wonder how they'd feel if you showed up for every church service they attended there?
Grow up and become an adult. He's your ex, what he does is his business and has no reflection on you.





The fact that you choose to stick your nose into his business and then choose to get hurt by it is you being a childish little girl that still thinks everything is about you.





Big surprise he left you, what he does is not about you anymore.