Sensitive subject need some advice on how to talk to my fiancee about the gym?

my fiancee got a gym membership a couple months ago and goes occasionally, like 2 times a week. only 3 weeks tell the wedding and i want her to hit it hard! she isn't out of shape by any means i just want her to fell her greatest come the big day and have no regrets. any advice on how to talk to her with out her killing meSensitive subject need some advice on how to talk to my fiancee about the gym?
This really doesn't sound like your thinking of her best interest here. She obviously feels just fine about the big day approaching and where she's at fit wise, or she would be taking it upon herself to go to the gym more.





There is no easy way to come out and say what you want to say to her without her taking it the wrong way. It just wouldn't make sense to me on why my future husband would be so concerned about me having regrets that I didn't work out enough before my wedding day.





If you want to get lucky on your wedding night and have the next few weeks go by smoothly, I wouldn't say a word. Let her work out as much as she feels comfortable doing it and just be glad that she is in shape.Sensitive subject need some advice on how to talk to my fiancee about the gym?
If you want to marry this woman, don't tell her that she needs to hit the gym more than she does.





She's a big girl. She knows that if she doesn't feel her best she can go more often. Say encouraging things like ';The gym is really paying off, keep it up!';
Be honest with yourself, first of all. You don't care, so much, about how she'll feel on her wedding, you care about how she'll look. The only thing you can suggest is you two work out together and eat healthy, together, for the next 3 weeks. Tell her that you saw a book that showed a couple who slimmed down together in 12 weeks, and tell her you'd like to try this (The Book is called Body for Life). This is the least dangerous method you can choose, to bring this up to her. Personally, unless she wants to get into better shape, for herself, it probably wont work. You are in dangerous territory anyway, marrying someone, that you already want to change. What happens when she gets pregnant? Are you sure she is the woman for you?
Umm.. Dude. no. How would you like it if she told you to got to the gym more than you currently do.. You should love her as she is. She probably has bazillion things to prepare for the wedding.